Acceptance

Back at the end of first term, for the discipleship program I'm doing, one of our tasks was to talk to a non/ not yet christian about spiritual stuff. The idea was to get them to talk with us asking questions and to just listen to where their at.
So I decided to visit one of my oldest friends and went to hers for dinner and it was just really great to catch up cos, for a number of reasons, we don't get to see each other that often anymore. I also really enjoyed just listening to what she had to say about were she sat on spiritual issues- some of which were totally spaced out (liturally- cos she rekons she's been abducted by aliens) but I much prefer to listen to people and help them to find were their at rather than preach a sermon (mainly cos I really suck at getting up a just talking- need others to talk or a least ask me questions). So we sat outside and talked for hours about stuff, often being interupred by Trav and her other flat mates while commented on what they thought about spiritual stuff.
I loved talking to my friend because you can tell she's always so honest and would tell you about anything thats going on openly. However, she's a chronic dope smoker and had also consumed at least 2 cans of jim bean and I honestly don't know how much that would affect the way she thinks about stuff. I's also had a can, which I neglected to report back to the group, but I'm not too worried about 1 can- although there was an incident after 2 glasses of wine once but that was a once off!(I don't think me and wine mix very well- that or mich was spiling the drinks!!).
Reporting back to the group I was asked if I'd told my friend every time she was wrong- maybe this makes me a really bad christian and is something I need to work on but I couldn't sit there in her house and just tell her I thought she was wrong- I asked her questions to get her thinking more about what she was saying but that was it. I was totally accepted into their house and they didn't feel the need to tell me they thought I was wrong- why as christians do we always feel we have to correct people all the time just cos their ideas don't fit into our christian boxes? How is it that I am more accepted into non christians how than she would be into a church?
Also I felt I shouldn't mention that I'd had a drink while doing a church task- this girl is the most open and honest person I know, I rekon that if I'd gone and done this task with a christian person they'd be so worried about being correct or thinking about What would Jesus say, that they wouldn't openly state where their at (i know I'm generalising here).